You’ll learn when he needs help… and when he wants to be left alone. You’ll learn what aggravates him… and what aggravates you. You’ll learn the beauty of shared space and responsibility. You’ll learn to communicate better even if it makes you uncomfortable. You’ll learn things about each other you wish you wouldn’t have.
Then, you’ll be thankful for it later.
I, like you, think in words too. Then, give me a room and the things on my list and I can create a beautiful space with it! I have to see it in person though.