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I was thinking about this a bit more the other day. I know several couples like this. For more than a few the accident/incident/disease/disability struck soon after the wedding or was a pre-existing condition. One brave young bloke I know just married his long time GF in my town is a tall good looking government worker, fairly accomplished & independent, and he not only takes care of his now wife’s ailing granny, but his fairly sick wife too. Cooks cleans, & rehabs around the house too. All at mid-late 20 something. Without batting an eyelash. And he’s been doing it for years too. I know several now middle aged & older couples where one spouse was stricken literally days or months after the wedding. many having only a year or so of ‘normal life’ before the real struggles began. Most can’t adequately cope, but they somehow manage for love. And year after year, they’re still there doing the tasks that need to be done and demonstrating in mind & act their devotion towards their spouse or loved one. It’s often a tremendous sacrifice, and can be very draining as well. And it’s just not exclusively a woman’s lot either! Cheers, ‘VJ’