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https://bit.ly/3Q7qRbj https://bit.ly/3Q9T5lI https://bit.ly/3AadEsx https://bit.ly/3QcuKeV https://bit.ly/3QcuNaB https://bit.ly/3QcuPiJ https://bit.ly/3SxHIpg https://bit.ly/3Qgh1DU https://bit.ly/3Qgl1Vd I would say that she’s 100% ignorant of her past’s putting her at higher probability of cheating. So while she accepts that she’s perhaps disqualified herself as LTR material for a lot of guys, she believes that when she does find someone to love she will be as devoted as anyone. And perhaps that is true. In any case, I think you’d find that most women who’ve done some hooking up in college would be shocked to hear they’re more likely to cheat on a future husband. Again, they perceive that their behavior is the norm. 117Susan Walsh March 21, 2012 at 7:55 am @Joe I feel young (and I can still do five mile runs), but now I’m caring for an ailing wife nearly full time. That’s not going to change, and it’s given me a whole new perspective on what having a relationship really means. I am so sorry to hear that, I didn’t know. Thank you for reminding us what is truly important. It is something we should focus on here when we talk about LTRs and marriage. I’m working on a post about regrets, and one article I found talks about what people regret as they near the end of life. There’s a lot of wisdom there. 118Susan Walsh March 21, 2012 at 7:59 am @anonymous Those are all great suggestions. I don’t think she is depressed or lonely, based on what I saw, but I don’t know her well. She does have friends, but they are surely fixtures in the same social scene at school. She’s lucky that college is about to end – that will remove a lot of the day to day temptation. Hopefully, she will have or find a different crowd wherever she ends up after she graduates. 119Susan Walsh March 21, 2012 at 8:00 am @Anacaona I hope she understand in the deepness of her heart that a guy giving her a chance is very valuable I told her this straight out, and explained why, so if she didn’t understand before she does now. She definitely gets it.
