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For women, it’s just the opposite. Staring down is aggressive; looking away is coy and can actually be an IOI.
107 Susan Walsh says: October 19, 2010 at 8:47 pm @Xander Welcome, thanks for leaving a comment. I have been surprised to learn just how important gazing is, and how differently the sexes employ it! I can tell you that women don’t glance at all if they aren’t interested, not deliberately. If this occurs and you’re not sure if your eyes met by accident or she was looking at you, keep an eye on her after she looks away. If she is not interested, she will avoid looking back at you at all costs. If you make eye contact a second time, she’s ready and waiting for you to approach. Don’t expect a long glance (scary!) or a big smile (also scary), though it’s helpful for women to learn that those tactics are very welcome encouragement for men.
108 V says: October 19, 2010 at 9:02 pm Any guy that initiates contact more than you do is attracted to you. If he looks at you even when you don’t look at him. Does he find an excuse to touch you, even casually. If you think he’s not attracted to you, he probably isn’t.
I’m not shy. Just the other day I got in a spot of hot water for approaching a guy who turned out to be a girl. And got both a rejection and a pamphlet on how to better treat transsexuals. Hey, it’s nothing but a funny story now. I feel for you shy guys, I do. But at the same time if you don’t show interest I assume you’re not interested, because hell most of the time you aren’t. And by interest I mean initiating contact.
109 Susan Walsh says: October 19, 2010 at 9:37 pm @V
Just the other day I got in a spot of hot water for approaching a guy who turned out to be a girl. And got both a rejection and a pamphlet on how to better treat transsexuals. Hey, it’s nothing but a funny story now.
